Navigating the Holidays with a Loved One in Assisted Living or Memory Care

The holiday season is a time of joy, reflection, and family togetherness. However, if you have a loved one in assisted living or memory care, the holidays may come with unique challenges. At SilverCrest Properties, we’re here to help you make the season as special as possible while ensuring your loved one’s comfort and happiness. Here are some tips for navigating the holidays with a loved one in assisted living or memory care.

1. Plan Visits Thoughtfully

The holidays are a busy time, and planning ahead is key. Coordinate with the care team to determine the best times for visits, ensuring they align with your loved one’s daily routine. Morning or early afternoon visits often work best, as energy levels may wane later in the day.

Pro Tip: Keep visits shorter if needed to avoid overstimulation, particularly for those with memory challenges.

2. Bring the Holidays to Them

You don’t have to skip beloved traditions; instead, bring them to your loved one. Decorate their living space with familiar holiday touches like ornaments, wreaths, or family photos. Consider bringing a favorite holiday dish or treat to share during your visit.

Safety Tip: Choose decorations that are safe and easy to manage, such as flameless candles or shatterproof ornaments.

3. Include Them in Festivities

If your loved one is able, invite them to join family gatherings or holiday activities. Assisted living and memory care communities like SilverCrest often host their own seasonal events, which can be a wonderful opportunity for the whole family to participate.

Flexibility is Key: Be mindful of their energy levels and comfort and have a quiet space available if they need a break.

4. Focus on Meaningful Moments

For loved ones in memory care, engaging the senses can spark joy and familiarity. Sing holiday songs, look through old photo albums, or create simple crafts together. Even small gestures like holding hands or sharing a warm drink can make the season brighter.

Memory-Friendly Activities: Avoid complex or fast-paced activities that may cause confusion or frustration.

5. Communicate with the Care Team

Stay in touch with the staff at your loved one’s community to understand their needs and preferences. The team at SilverCrest Properties is always available to offer guidance and support, helping you create a meaningful holiday experience.

6. Adjust Expectations

It’s natural to long for past traditions, but it’s important to embrace new ones as your family’s needs evolve. Celebrate the holidays in a way that prioritizes your loved one’s well-being and creates moments of connection, no matter how small.

7. Take Care of Yourself

Supporting a loved one during the holidays can be emotionally and physically demanding. Make time for self-care, and don’t hesitate to lean on family, friends, or support groups for help.

At SilverCrest Properties, we believe the holidays are an opportunity to celebrate togetherness and create lasting memories, even as circumstances change. With a little planning and a lot of love, you can make this season joyful and meaningful for your entire family.

Looking for more tips or resources? Contact SilverCrest Properties to learn how we help families navigate the holidays and beyond with compassion and care.